How do people develop stage 4 cancer without noticing until it’s too late?
07.06.2025 03:01
I had a very happy life before 2022-2023 with my mom, dad, friends, relatives. I was happy in my own world, no worries of anything or anyone,hoping to complete my post graduation, get a job and make my carrer,wanted to fulfill the wishes of Mom and dad and their incomplete dreams just as a person would like it. But unfortunately things turned around all of a sudden like a storm.
She is so unlucky that she wants to say something but can't speak and it hurts a lot.
Also please follow the conventional treatment method in case anyone gets any type of cancer (i just pray that no one gets it) and do not ever go for ayurvedic or homeopathy as a standalone treatment. Never ever.
After one week, she suddenly became unresponsive (on oct 15th). We rushed to the hospital where she was in ICU. She became stable but was still unresponsive like not responding to our words, not moving her hands and legs. Doctors gave us a clear picture that her bp is not stable and we may loose her anytime.
Sorry mom i couldn't do much for you and couldn't complete your unfulfilled dreams.
I and my dad were completely broke that day. We couldn't think of our life without mom. It was a hard thing to accept. Our relatives also tried from their side by consulting doctors of their contact but we got same outcome.
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Our family Doctor ignored the early signs at 2021 where the lump was just like a point and because of it my mom suffered much and now she her condition has became such that she may leave us anytime soon. Maybe its our fault that we also didn't consult other doctors and blindly trusted our family doctor and lack of awareness led us to this condition today.
My mom lost hope. Then she took a call and discontinued the conventional treatment and started ayurvedic treatment again. This time i was completely against it but mom and dad assured me that everything will be fine(Didn't knew that mom accepted her fate at that time only, she choose to hide it from me at that time). Still i was not convinced.
Cancer doubled up again and this time very aggressively. So aggressively that doctors said that now any kind of treatment will not have effect on her.
I broked out at hospital, started to cry uncontrollably. My dad and i had to take a call. We with our relatives decided to discharge her and take back home.
Disease was diagnosed in 2022 and we informed to our relatives and friends at 2023. We started the treatment in march 2023 and at june there was a good news that the most of the cancer cells are dying. Cancer which had spreaded in her lungs was vanished , but then too it was there in liver, breast and bones. We continued the treatment, she was being given targeted therapy and she was recovering well and in October 2023 another bad news was waiting for us.
I didn't wanted to start ayurvedic treatment again, but because of my mom i didn't say anything. We went to tata memorial hospital to restart her conventional treatment again but looking at my mom's reports and condition they said that she will not live much but we will try by giving the injections (same injections which were suggested in march 2024). I and dad thought for a while and we decided to start treatment again. We started the treatment again in july in a hope that everything will be fine but in actual my mom got scared seeing N number of patients in the hospital where even 1-2 years of children were also undergoing treatment for cancer. My mom used to say i don't want to be here, let's go, whatever happens let it happen, but how can we give up on her. We made her understand we can't do it, kept on motivating her. Me, my dad and mom were very shocked to see the condition of that little childrens (like man what wrong they did). After 3 injections we had to do scans. After 1st injection my mom suddenly became weak after 1 week, our doctor at tata hospital said its because her body had lost the habit of chemotherapy/targeted therapy and she will regain it over the time. Bu during that phase she couldn't talk much nor could walk without support. We waited patiently after 3 targeted therapy but days before the scans, my mom suddenly fell ill and was admitted to the tata hospital. She was admitted for 5 days and scans took place (as its a dedicated cancer hospital it had all the facilities). We were hoping for good results. But again unfortunately things were not in our favour.
In march 2024, we had another scans which showed that cancer cells doubled up in size. We got scared at that time. My mom started to say that i may not live more but we kept on motivating her to not loose hope. Doctors suggested us to change the injections and gave us some option, and said that my mom has to take this targeted therapy injection life time with a gap of 21 days as the cancer cannot be completely cured, only controlled. Now the injection was very costly and we also didn't had a medical insurance. How we were suppose to afford it. I was not at job as i waited for my mom to be healthy,(hoped for it). How can i support my family financially as someone needs to stay back for her because she was not in a state to do any small or big household works.
I will miss you Mom and i always love you❤
Cancer not only destroyed my mom's health but also me and my dad too. First time i saw my dad crying. Don't know how we will come up from this loss. Will be very hard
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Finally we got a hope after consulting a new cancer doctor which our neighbors suggested. I and dad were relived a bit and continued the treatment. After one cycle of this new treatment, her blood reports showed positive signs and doctor also said that she is improving slowly. Hearing this we were relived very much. We even went to our relatives place, gave a hope to all, but maybe her luck didn't want her to be good to her.
My mom fought hard. She is a true fighter. Even though she knew that maybe she will not live much, she fought for her son, her husband. She wanted to celebrate her wedding anniversary. She used to tell me i will play this song will celebrate like that,etc....But although God's will is something else for her.
I Just wanted to narrate my story to you all with a heavy heart that how worse cancer can be and i will always pray that even to my worst enemies/people i hate/i don't talk etc...they or their family members do not get any type of cancer even if its on stage 0.
Cancer cells had reached in brain because of it she used to feel dizzy. Doctors suggested radiation and we went for it. After radiation she was doing well and scans also showed that the cells are under control. Treatment was continued, everything was going well, we even visited chennai (Velankanni village), goa and other places. And again a bad news was waiting for us.
My mom did a sonography of her breast after feeling a bit discomfort in October-November 2021 which showed a lump like a point but there was no pain. Our family Doctor assured us that there is nothing to worry and it is common and gave us some medications. We also were very stress free after hearing this but who knew that it was the start of a bad phase.
After discomfort didn't go, she met another doctor and got her scans done in june 2022 and the results shocked us. My mom was diagnosed with stage 4 metastatic Carcinoma breast cancer in june 2022. As we hear the word cancer anyone would be in a state of shock. My mom and i thought that this maybe the end of her life. That doctor referred us to a oncologist and that Doctor had said to my dad that mom has only 6 months to live at the most as disease has spreaded to the body(which actually had spreaded only to lungs but that oncologist didn't discussed with us properly which stage of cancer it was, how severe it could because of which we thought it actually was spreaded in whole body). My family had no awareness of cancer at all (how dangerous it could be, what are the treatment options,etc.) We only knew about chemotherapy and surgery. Never knew about radiation also. My dad never told us about it(that doctor said she has only 6 months to live) as he was scared that how i and mom will take it. My mom didn't wanted to take chemotherapy so we decided to go for ayurvedic treatment. Trusting on my mom's decision we started the treatment hoping that to some extent things may get better. But things didn't go in our favour again as we thought.
Till april, may she was slightly healthy again, we attended a party of our relatives 25th wedding anniversary, we went for a picnic,she even came in the pool, she was enjoying, everything was going smooth but again in june,her liver area started to pain. We did a sonography scan which showed the liver is slightly swelled, and for obvious reasons because of cancer and her condition started to get bad again.
My mom talked to doctor and asked not to hide anything from her and he cleared it that we don't know how long she would live, unlike the very first cancer doctor who scared us without completely telling us properly about the disease.
She started to lose weight, became very weak, although didn't say much to us as she was still trusting ayurvedic treatment. But one day she started to feel tired even after walking for just 1 min.Then we decided to get back to the actual conventional treatment methods in Feb 2023 and consulted a new oncologist. After doing new scans again, That doctor said us clearly that the disease has spreaded out to your whole body, which is only controllable and not curable. Because it has progressed rapidly. Our very first cancer doctor didn't informed us that the disease was spreaded to the lungs only. We were in shock that why didn't that doctor told us this before. If it was so, we could have started the treatment that time only. By the time we got to know it was too late at that time. Mom and dad decided to start chemotherapy without a second thought this time.
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She was improving and all of a sudden in a week again she Detoriated can't believe what was happening to her. Then too i hoped that maybe that doctor was new and does not know her case properly. I talked to our cancer doctor. He said that her journey is difficult but we should hope for something good. It gave me some hope and gave her the medications. She started to respond slowly by moving her eyes and head and her vitals became stable. But again on Saturday night, her blood oxygen levels were dropping. Doctor personally called me. I knew something bad is waiting for us. He explained me that its better to discharge her rather than laying her on ventilator as ventilator once started cannot be stopped and it will be a painful experience for my mom.
Still lived in a false hope that any miracle may happen
On Sunday 20th oct we brought her home back. But i was still living in a false hope that maybe by God's grace she will be fine. And on Monday 21st October, her blood oxygen levels started to drop again and heart rate increased. Doctors came home and said that she will leave us anytime maybe today or tomorrow can't say, be prepared.🙂. Ultimately her cancer won and she lost...
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Updated: My mom passed away on 23rd oct early morning.
If you read this till here, thank you 🙏. Hope you will have a great day ahead. And i pray that your family may be free from cancer.